Empathy is more than attunement…
Specific to compulsive behaviors, empathy in addiction is an attuned understanding of the WHY, not justification of the WHAT. Empathy feels WITH the person, while staying grounded, boundaried, and clear-eyed about the harm.
In recovery, empathy is the ability to understand and emotionally connect with the betrayed partner’s reality - the fear, confusion, destabilization, and loss of safety caused - while staying present, accountable, and non-defensive.
The Empathy Assessment is a therapeutic support tool that provides you with a baseline of where you are in your empathy journey.
Cognitive Empathy: understanding the perspective or mental state of another - to be able to see the world as they see it.
Affective Empathy: Ability to respond with an appropriate emotion when you observe/interact with another’s mental state. Your ability to feel WITH them, not just for them.
Empathic Action: The desire to support others, driven by empathic feelings, where you turn understanding their need into a meaningful action.
An empathy assessment is a research-backed, comprehensive assessment tool designed to measure your capacity across multiple empathy domains to support your healing journey. It provides information about where you are and your current capacity for cognitive and affective empathy and empathic action. The report provides clear, actionable insights for your growth and can be a valuable resource for you and your therapist.
You will receive information about:
Your barriers to demonstrating empathy
Areas where empathy can grow and transform your relationships
How you understand and respond to others’ emotions
Request Your Empathy Assessment
Problematic Compulsive Behaviors Books
Out of the Doghouse: Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating: Weiss LCSW CSAT-S, Robert: 9780757319211: Amazon.com: Books
Sex Addiction 101: Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction: Robert Weiss PhD LCSW: 9780757318436: Amazon.com: Books
Out of the Shadows: Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction: Carnes Ph.D, Patrick J: 9781568386218: Amazon.com: Books
Don’t Call It Love: Don't Call It Love: Recovery From Sexual Addiction: Carnes, Patrick: 9780553351385: Amazon.com: Books
Sexual Anorexia: Sexual Anorexia: Overcoming Sexual Self-Hatred: Carnes Ph.D, Patrick J, Moriarity, Joseph M.: 9781568381442: Amazon.com: Books
Sex Addiction 101 Workbook: The Seeking Integrity Sex Addiction 101 Workbook: Exercises to Guide Sex Addiction Recovery: Integrity, Seeking, Weiss, Dr. Robert: 9798863287799: Amazon.com: Books
Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction: Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction: Second Edition: Capparucci Ph.D., Eddie: 9798866750993: Amazon.com: Books
TINSA Trauma-Induced Sexual Addiction: TINSA: A Neurological Approach to the Treatment of Sex Addiction: Barta Ph.D., LPC, CSAT-S, Michael: 9781981738694: Amazon.com: Books
Help Her Heal: Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal: Sheets, Carol Juergensen, Katz, Allan J., Bordey, Chris: 9781733922203: Amazon.com: Books
Podcasts
Helping Couples Heal: Helping Couples Heal Podcast - Podcast - Apple Podcasts
Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships: Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships - Podcast - Apple Podcasts
Porn, Betrayal, Sex and The Experts (PBSE2): Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts — PBSE | Podcast on Spotify
Therapy Brothers: Therapy Brothers - Podcast - Apple Podcasts
From Crisis to Connection: From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer - Podcast - Apple Podcasts
Ask the Unfaithful: Ask the Unfaithful - Podcast - Apple Podcasts
Dr. Omar Minwalla Institute for Sexual Health Podcasts: Podcasts - Minwalla Model